Look. Here’s a thing. When you hear me contradicting or double talking or giving advice to one person, and then giving completely different advice to another person.
That is because I take these questions from a place of clean slate.
It’s not because my philosophy is Enmeshed with this.
It’s not about what I like and don’t like.
Your overall development is always more important than the specifics of what you gain.
You don’t want to gain one thing and loose a lot more.